This morning as I was walking home from my Sunday church service at Uni, I passed by a poster on one of the walls that read,
"If anyone comes to Me and does not hate his father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he cannot be My disciple." - Jesus in Luke 14:26
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These posters in general aren't unusual, but it's interesting every now and then to pause for a moment and have a read. In this particular poster, because they bolded and enlarged the font of the word "hate", I guess their aim was to make this passage seem like a rather nasty one. After all, Jesus, encouraging to hate one's father and mother, wife and children?
Fortunately, we don't have to worry too much about this passage, and view it out of context as done above, because we are fully aware of Jesus' two new commandments, i.e. "You shall love the LORD your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like it: You shall love your neighbour as yourself." Matthew 22:37-39.
In special response to their poster however, my trusty study Bible [New Spirit Filled Life Bible] had a few comments on that passage, that are of great importance. It notes "A disciple must subordinate all earthly relationships to loyalty to Christ. Jesus' remark is an example of Hebrew hyperbole to emphasize the subject being discussed. To hate one's family is therefore not a command or statement of face but a way of expressing the importance of allegiance to Him." .. let that sink in for a second or two..
Now, let's briefly consider the word "hyperbole". You being intelligent folks know what it means, but let's look it up in Oxford Dictionary anyway.. Ah! Found it! (I adore the Internet; oed.com!) It states, "A figure of speech consisting in exaggerated or extravagant statement, used to express strong feeling or produce a strong impression, and not intended to be understood literally" (Oxford). Hmm, need we continue? Especially noting that Jesus did so commonly speak in parables?
As stated in the comments section of my Bible (shown above), the aim of this passage is to express the importance of allegiance to Jesus. Jesus is not telling you to hate your parents, or friends and love Him instead! If that were the case, why would the Lord (i) have a commandment about honouring your parents? i.e. Exodus 20:12, or (ii) in the New Testament command that we love our neighbour as ourselves? i.e. Matthew 22:39. In this passage our Lord is speaking to the importance of following Him, being totally committed to Him, and allowing Him to work His purpose for our lives.
If you ever come across one of these posters, or any comments similar, which attempt to somewhat distort what you know to be true about Christ, take a moment to let it sink it, ask Christ to guide your response. He may ask you to respond to the poster/comment, or He may direct you to your Bible for further analysis of the topic. Listen for His guidance and allow Him to work through you!
Have a great week all!